The more I show up to help others succeed, the more success finds its way back to me. This isn’t a theory. It’s a principle I live by, and it changes everything
.Real success isn’t about going at it alone. It’s about building something meaningful by being part of others’ growth, by being there when they need it, by celebrating their wins. I’ve seen time and again that those who truly show up for others end up creating lives filled with real connection and impact. Here’s how I do it—and why it matters.
Of course, these practices are an ideal standard—things I strive for when I’m in a solid place, an “I don’t need anything” phase.
Life ebbs and flows, and there are times when I don’t have the energy or bandwidth to show up like this.
But when I do, when I’m in that place where I can give without needing anything back, these are the practices that build real success and connection. See if they work for you too.
1. Responding Like They’re Right in Front of Me
When I see a friend announce something new—a project, an event, or a launch—I don’t just scroll past it like it’s another post.
I treat it like they’re standing in front of me, excitedly sharing this part of their journey. I react, leave a thoughtful comment, or share the post to show them I’m genuinely listening.
That effort shows my friend I’m invested, and it also signals the algorithm to get that post seen by more people. It’s a small action, but it’s powerful.
Every time I engage, I’m adding a little more visibility to their work and sending them a direct message that says, “I see you, and I’m here.”
2. Signing Up Early to Show Support
I’ve noticed that a lot of events get canceled last minute, often because people wait until the final moment to commit. This hesitation can kill momentum, leaving organizers feeling unsupported.
When I decide to go to a friend’s event, I don’t wait—I sign up early. I click “Going,” pay for the ticket, or whatever it takes to show I’m committed.
Then I let my friend know, giving them that boost of confidence to keep pushing forward. If the event is public, I’ll share it with my network, too. I’m not just filling a seat. I’m backing their work and showing I believe in what they’re doing.
And sometimes, that little bit of early support is all it takes to get the event off the ground and into something great.
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3. Subscribing to Stay Connected
Social media is great, but I know I don’t actually own my connection with people there. Algorithms dictate who sees my posts, and I often have to pay if I want to reach more than a fraction of my followers.
That’s why, if someone I follow has a newsletter, I subscribe. It’s direct—there’s no algorithm in between, no filter. It means their message reaches me, and I can respond in a way that actually supports their work.
That’s why you’re reading this here in my newsletter.
I value the direct connection we have here, where I can share my thoughts without barriers. And if someone I follow doesn’t have a newsletter yet, I encourage them to start one. I even suggest Respira if they need help getting set it up. Because newsletters create the kind of connection that no social media platform can touch.
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4. Meeting People in Person
Online support has its limits. I make it a point to get out there, meet up in person, attend community gatherings, and connect face-to-face with people I resonate with.
Being there physically adds an energy you can’t replicate through a screen.
Face-to-face connections build trust and deepen relationships.
They strengthen the sense of community, remind me of my role in that community, and bring me closer to the people who are out there putting in the work.
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5. Spending Locally
I put my money where my values are. Instead of going to a multinational chain, I choose to buy from local farmers and family-owned businesses whenever I can.
When it comes to learning, I prioritize attending workshops offered by people in my local communities over big corporate courses.
Each dollar I spend locally supports the dreams and efforts of people around me, creating a stronger, more connected community.
So, this is how I show up. Commenting, committing early, subscribing, meeting in person, buying local. These actions create a life filled with connection and meaning. It’s a ripple effect, one that lifts everyone up—including me.
So here’s my question to you: what if you tried just one of these? If this post resonated, maybe start here—leave a comment, react, or share this post. See what happens when you choose to lift someone else up, even in the smallest way. 👊
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